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Dear Gentle Reader: Cease Comparing, Start Cultivating - A Gentle Reminder for Wedding Planners

  • Writer: Lady Whistlewed
    Lady Whistlewed
  • Sep 23, 2024
  • 1 min read

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Lady Whistlewed's Message
Dear Gentle Reader, It has come to this author's attention that a most insidious habit has taken root among our esteemed ranks - the perilous practice of unfavorable self-comparison. This matter weighs heavily upon my heart, for I have witnessed the toll it takes on even the most talented among you. Consider, if you will, the folly of judging one's "Chapter 4" against another's "Chapter 25". It is akin to expecting a rosebud to possess the full splendor of a blooming flower - a notion as preposterous as it is damaging. Each planner's path is as unique as the weddings they orchestrate, with trials and triumphs all their own. Take, for instance, the case of a young entrepreneur, a planner of great promise who nearly abandoned her calling after comparing her modest beginnings to the grand affairs managed by the seasoned Master Certified Wedding Planner. How fortunate for us all that she persevered, for her unique vision has since brought forth some of the most charming and intimate celebrations our society has witnessed. It is crucial to remember, dear planners, that the polished elegance you admire in others is often the result of years of toil, unseen challenges, and hard-won wisdom. The path to mastery is rarely a straight line, and comparing your journey to another's can only lead to unnecessary distress and self-doubt. Instead of succumbing to such comparisons, I implore you to focus your energies on your own growth and development. And in this endeavor, might I humbly suggest a most excellent stepping stone? The certification offered by the esteemed CWP Society. This venerable institution provides not only a wealth of knowledge and skills but also a boost to one's confidence that is beyond measure. Through their thorough program, you shall gain expertise in all aspects of wedding planning, from the art of negotiation to the intricacies of design. Moreover, you will find yourself part of a community of like-minded professionals, each on their own journey of growth and excellence. By pursuing such certification, you invest not in keeping pace with others, but in becoming the best version of yourself. It is a declaration of your commitment to your craft and your clients, a testament to your dedication that speaks far louder than any comparison ever could. Remember, gentle planners, that your worth is not determined by how you measure up to others, but by the joy you bring to couples on their special day, the problems you solve with grace, and the beautiful memories you help create. In closing, I beseech you to cast aside the urge to compare and instead embrace your own unique journey. For it is in nurturing your own talents and pursuing excellence on your own terms that you shall truly flourish. Yours in advocacy for self-appreciation and continuous growth, Lady Whistlewed


Dear Gentle Reader, It has come to this author's attention that a most insidious habit has taken root among our esteemed ranks - the perilous practice of unfavorable self-comparison. This matter weighs heavily upon my heart, for I have witnessed the toll it takes on even the most talented among you. Consider, if you will, the folly of judging one's "Chapter 4" against another's "Chapter 25". It is akin to expecting a rosebud to possess the full splendor of a blooming flower - a notion as preposterous as it is damaging. Each planner's path is as unique as the weddings they orchestrate, with trials and triumphs all their own. Take, for instance, the case of a young entrepreneur, a planner of great promise who nearly abandoned her calling after comparing her modest beginnings to the grand affairs managed by the seasoned Master Certified Wedding Planner. How fortunate for us all that she persevered, for her unique vision has since brought forth some of the most charming and intimate celebrations our society has witnessed. It is crucial to remember, dear planners, that the polished elegance you admire in others is often the result of years of toil, unseen challenges, and hard-won wisdom. The path to mastery is rarely a straight line, and comparing your journey to another's can only lead to unnecessary distress and self-doubt. Instead of succumbing to such comparisons, I implore you to focus your energies on your own growth and development. And in this endeavor, might I humbly suggest a most excellent stepping stone? The certification offered by the esteemed CWP Society. This venerable institution provides not only a wealth of knowledge and skills but also a boost to one's confidence that is beyond measure. Through their thorough program, you shall gain expertise in all aspects of wedding planning, from the art of negotiation to the intricacies of design. Moreover, you will find yourself part of a community of like-minded professionals, each on their own journey of growth and excellence. By pursuing such certification, you invest not in keeping pace with others, but in becoming the best version of yourself. It is a declaration of your commitment to your craft and your clients, a testament to your dedication that speaks far louder than any comparison ever could. Remember, gentle planners, that your worth is not determined by how you measure up to others, but by the joy you bring to couples on their special day, the problems you solve with grace, and the beautiful memories you help create. In closing, I beseech you to cast aside the urge to compare and instead embrace your own unique journey. For it is in nurturing your own talents and pursuing excellence on your own terms that you shall truly flourish. Yours in advocacy for self-appreciation and continuous growth, Lady Whistlewed

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